10 years in and what I finally understand about building

What if the most important thing you’ll ever build... is trust?10 years in, here’s what I’ve learned about business, people, and alignment.

Hi fam,

I’ve been building brands for almost a decade now.

Started at 14 with barely any clue what I was doing
and somehow ended up here:
launching companies, growing teams, scaling systems.
But the longer I’m in it,
the more I realize one truth that goes deeper than all the growth hacks:

👉 Business is always about people.
👉 And people are never just "resources."

They’re humans. With vision. With wounds. With dreams.
And so are you.

If you want to build something that lasts
something that doesn’t crumble when the market shifts or the team changes
you need to build on trust, clarity, and shared ambition.

And that’s where the real work begins.

Here’s what I’ve learned:

1. You don’t build brands. You build belief.

The product, the ads, the systems they’re important.
But what keeps a brand alive is the belief that flows through every part of it.

When I look back, every team I loved working with,
every brand that scaled beyond the noise
had one thing in common:

→ They believed in what they were building.
→ And they believed in each other.

Without that, everything is transactional.

With it?
Even setbacks become momentum.

2. You can’t lead people if you haven’t led yourself.

This one hit me hard.
I used to think leadership was about clarity, structure, process.
But the real bottleneck in most teams isn’t knowledge.
It’s emotional unreadiness.

How you handle pressure.
How you show up when things don’t go as planned.
How much chaos you bring into the room without knowing it.

The people around you will only trust you
as far as you trust yourself.

3. Ambition isn’t enough. You need alignment.

I’ve worked with hyper-talented founders.
Brands doing 6, 7, 8 figures.
But many of them are exhausted, not because the work is hard
but because it’s not aligned anymore.

They’re chasing momentum that doesn’t feel like theirs.

So here’s a filter I use now before starting any project, collaboration, or idea:

“Does this feel aligned in the intake?”

“Would I still want to do this if there was no money attached to it?”

That doesn’t mean I don’t value results I absolutely do.
But I’ve learned to only scale what feels right.
Because speed without alignment is self-sabotage.

4. If you want to scale others, you need systems.

This is where the founder fantasy often collapses.

You can have all the vision in the world
but without systems, it stays stuck in your head.

At some point, you have to get it out:

  • SOPs for your processes

  • Clear documentation for your logic

  • Communication that empowers others, not locks them out

That’s what I do in my consulting now.
But more importantly, that’s what I wish someone had told me years ago.

Freedom doesn’t come from hiring more people.

It comes from building things that can run without you.

So what does all this mean?

It means your greatest work won’t just be the company you build.
It’ll be the version of you that shows up to build it.

And that version doesn’t come from more info.
It comes from more inner alignment.

Start there.

You’ll be surprised how much clarity follows.

Thanks for being here and reading every week.
And if this hit home share it with someone who might need it.

Cheers
Markus